Self-denial Toward Self-transcendence

"Life in common always has its asceticism. Contemplative union with God both requires and causes self-denial. That very idea raises defenses in our culture; we do not want to hear the word. Monastic living witnesses not only to its necessity, but even more to its potential. Self-denial is better spelled self-transcendence, since its purpose is the going beyond that opens out to new and deeper life. What dies is exaggerated individualism; what flourishes, a love that strengthens one's ego and a love for others that enriches all in the family of God."

Marie Beha OSB, from The Monastic Way edited by: Hannah Ward & Jennifer Wild, p. 15